In your mouth those legs. Feet in my mouth: entertaining fetishes of real people. Felix. Inspiration is a delicate matter

A fetishist can probably be found in every second person. He doesn’t necessarily have to steal panties from his girlfriend’s laundry basket or look at women’s feet on the subway with a special predilection, it’s enough just to have something that is incredibly inspiring, turns on, has some kind of deep meaning - more than “should”.

We decided to survey our readers and answered ourselves a very intriguing question about what a fetish is:

Anna, 23 years old. Stretching - the power of thoughts

I have a lot of sports behind me, I did gymnastics, and this is a hell of a stretch and there is no way to somehow avoid it even for one day. And of course, for me the word “splits” was a fascinating horror, but now, I play sports at an amateur level and after a while stretching has become something like meditation. I really get a buzz and even get excited from these painful impulses transmitted from the muscles to the whole body. It also helps me sort all my thoughts into pieces, so when I don’t have much time for long thoughts, I just do the splits and literally in half a minute all the contradictions inside find a logical way out.

Maxim, 27 years old. Nowhere without a mirror

By nature, I am not a narcissist; my self-esteem is also fine: not too high, not too low. In general, I am an ordinary guy, but there is one treasured “key” to my strength in sexual terms. Without it, the notes don't add up to the composition, and my partner may even remain dissatisfied. I'm talking about the mirror. Yes, it is precisely without my reflection that I cannot tune in to the right mood. It is very important for me to be, on the one hand, involved in sex scenes, and on the other hand, to be a free observer. When these two contradictory sensations form a symbiosis, I simply experience a storm of emotions, as if a rainbow is pouring through my veins.

Daniil, 22 years old. Catch it if you can

How I envy couples whose romance follows the classic scenario: candles, rose petals, relaxing music... It’s not that this is not available to me at all, but my girlfriend has slightly opposite preferences. Every time she has to be immersed in an atmosphere of violence, where I am a maniac and she is a victim. Otherwise you won't be able to get close to her. Moreover, we have already staged a prank of this seemingly similar situation in more than twenty variations.

Alexandra, 29 years old. Teddy bear

I myself have never been against unusual sex, fantasies, fulfillment of desires - this is sex! We need to please each other. But there is a limit, when instead of joy and a storm of emotions you receive unpleasant offers and memories. One day a young man asked me if there were soft toys available. No, not fur-covered handcuffs (they exist and I’m only too happy to use them), but teddy bears. He wanted us to have sex on the floor among the children's toys. At first I felt very funny, then scared and disgusted. The refusal sounded, and the guy went home.

Denis, 18 years old. She's a vampire

I noticed a lot of strange things about my exes, but one simply amazed me. My ex-miss liked it when I smelled like garlic. Although “liked” is not the right word, she was ready to just eat me out of emotion! She was able to explain her whim, but I was sure that she was not pretending, because dilated pupils, blush and a completely forgotten feeling of shame, in my opinion, are difficult to fake. By the way, then I started thinking, does garlic really scare away vampires? Isn't it the other way around? As far as I remember, that girl’s teeth sometimes seemed pointed...

Arseny, 21 years old. Flight for abrasion

I get a thrill when I fall during training, and if I crash like that, then this is generally aerobatics. I rollerblade at the skate park, and at the end, when it comes time to count the bruises and scratches, each spot gives me a +1 bonus to my mood. Honestly, it’s very difficult to put into words what I feel when my body is on adrenaline, when I do some trick and then - BOOM! And there may even be blood. And of course, it hurts me a lot, but there is something in this - something that makes me go further, fall more, and most importantly, just do it.

Nikita, 22 years old. Color matters

If you find yourself in bed with a girl, this does not give any guarantee that something will happen to you. You can’t keep up with all the female “tricks,” but I want to give advice to many guys, based on my experience: carry colored condoms with you. My girlfriend is absolutely obsessed with multi-colored latex. Moreover, she doesn’t even recognize any others - she says that color makes her fantasize, otherwise she gets very upset and loses desire.

Marina, 20 years old. pet me

My boyfriend constantly asks me to pet him or scratch him. Especially the head. Sometimes it's annoying as hell, but sometimes it works in my favor. So, for example, during such procedures you can beg him for something or force him to slow down. In general, this is his universal antidepressant and good mood pill. Once, when I gave him a light head massage, he even purred. Moreover, as he later claimed, he did it recklessly.

Alexander, 21 years old. Your music is hypnosis

A friend of mine once told me that she loves being blindfolded. In general, I can’t say that this is something very unusual, but I rather liked the explanation: she has been studying music since childhood and is an absolute audiophile, so much so that she literally gets turned on by sounds. And when her eyes are blindfolded, it helps her concentrate - other senses, including hearing, become more acute.

Irina, 24 years old. Life on film

I, like many girls, love to be photographed. But I can say about myself that I fall into some kind of ecstasy when a trio appears - me, the camera and the photographer. I like all this - the task is to choose an angle, convey the mood on the card, understand with what emotion to look into the lens. We are hardly interested in the answer; we are simply enjoying the process of solving it. In these seconds I understand that I am really living, and the clicks of the shutter are like breathing in for me...

Katya, 28 years old. Playful hands

In the first year of our acquaintance, for some reason my boyfriend was sure that I really liked it when, during passion, his fingers ended up in my mouth. He persisted in doing this every time, and I was left to fight the nausea. In the end, I pulled myself together and asked him not to do that again, to which he was surprised and said: “Of course, okay, I could have told you earlier.”

Felix. Inspiration is a delicate matter

I once met a makeup artist. A very talented man, he has a whole cabinet of awards, but the peculiarity of his work is extravagant - he prefers to draw on people’s genitals. Moreover, he does this for two reasons: it is difficult, not everyone can do it - thereby he proves to himself and others his skill. The second point is more banal: he just likes it. This is his creative path, his passion and, in the end, it is a canvas for the realization of ideas. It’s difficult to challenge art in general, but in the case of my friend, it’s simply against all the rules, if only because it’s worth seeing the energy that comes from him when he talks about his work.

Dasha, 35 years old. Blue, yellow, red

In recent years, I have realized from my own experience that foot fetishism is very common among men. In my case, we are talking about absolutely normal men who have sex normally, but are most excited by the sight of women’s legs. With the first one, at first I was very shy - what if my feet didn’t smell like roses at all... But gradually, to my surprise, I realized that it also turned me on very much. The most interesting thing is that with all this he has a quirk: attraction disappears if the girl’s toenails are painted with yellow, green or blue varnish. Another once admitted that my legs did not seem beautiful enough to him. He, you see, loves narrow, long-toed feet, but mine are not aristocratic enough. How angry I was! This is definitely a frankness that is best kept to yourself! Fortunately for my self-esteem, others really liked my legs.

Sasha, 29 years old.

At first everything went well - kissing and so on, and then he declares that it turns him on when a girl dances. Let me explain: firstly, he was a participant in one of the first dance television shows in the country and, apparently, in his coordinate system, without any steps there, you cannot even pour a glass of water in this life. And secondly, for some reason he imagined the girl’s dance in bed like this: she wriggles, twerks, languidly runs her hand through her hair, rolls her eyes with pleasure... And then, continuing to dance, she smoothly moves on to pleasuring his person. At the same time, he flatly refused to arrange foreplay for me... In short, without dancing he did not get an erection, and the conflict of interests led, no matter how it may sound, to an inglorious end.